Tuesday, June 30, 2009
Doctors' Visits
Father's Day weekend, Jared went on a biking trip, which I will have to post about later, so I had the girls all by myself. The night before he left, Taylor was in and out of bed probably 4-5 times, so the next day was really rough. We were all sleep-deprived, and she was really cranky. Then, on Sunday, I decided to be brave and took both girls to church by myself. By the time I got home from church, I wasn't feeling well at all. Normally I am starving after church, and I have to eat immediately, but I really didn't feel like cooking dinner. Instead, I grabbed a granola bar and just laid on the couch. Jared made it home later that night, and by that time, I was just aching all over. I thought maybe I had overdone it all weekend and had worn myself out, so I took my pain medicine for my broken bum and was in bed by 9:58pm. I'm usually a night owl, and it's a rare, rare occasion that I'm in bed by 10:00pm, so I obviously didn't feel well. The next morning, I expected to feel much better after a long night of sleep. Instead, I actually felt worse and even more achey. When I went to get in the shower, I noticed that my left breast was a little red. I had noticed during the night that it was a little tender, but that's not really unusual when you're breastfeeding. It was all starting to come together. I wasn't achey because of my tailbone and being tired. I bet I had mastitis. I looked it up online to see what all the symptoms are, and sure enough, everything I was noticing was listed. Luckily, I caught it before it got really bad. I still hadn't had my six week postpartum check up either because of my broken bum. Jared had taken that day off of work so we could celebrate a late Father's Day (I'll have to post about that later, too), so I figured it would be a good time to see if my OB-GYN could fit me in. I went in to the doctor later that afternoon, and I was right. I definitely had mastitis, so he put me on an antibiotic and told me to come back in a week. He said, ".. and you thought your weekly visits were over!" Oh, and he had to draw on me, too, to see how big the area of redness was. He said, "You just wanted me to draw on you." Yes, that's exactly it... haha
I feel like such a pill popper... haha I have never had to take so many medicines in my life! In the mornings, I take a prescription strength anti-inflammatory and the antibiotic. At night, I take the antibiotic, a prenatal vitamin, BCP's, and an occasional pain pill (which is not very often anymore; it has actually been a month since I fell now). These are all legally prescribed drugs, I swear ;-) Anyway, that's doctor visit #1.
Doctor visit #2 was the next day. Taylor had her last appointment with the plastic surgeon to follow up on her surgical site. He said he thought the scar looked well and that would could stop putting the scar ointment on it and just let it continue to heal on its own. He said he thought it would continue to lighten up and fade over time. He said that she shouldn't have any problems until she hits puberty, and hair probably wouldn't grow there (yeah, I didn't think it would), so she might want something cosmetic done at that time. I don't even want to know what they would do for that, but she's not going to have anything done because no one is going to see that, right??!! Glad that's all over with.
Doctor visit #3 (I suppose this could count as two visits actually) was on my birthday when Bella had to have the VCUG done to test for urinary reflux. A friend of mine had offered to watch Taylor, so I didn't have to worry about being stressed over her, too. I woke up that morning feeling very nervous about it and actually started crying after I got out of the shower. I just wasn't sure how they were going to do the test. When Taylor had her surgery, obviously they had to come and take her away from us. I was taking Bella to the hospital by myself, and I just didn't know how I would handle them taking her away from me and then having to just sit and wait by myself. Well, it turns out that the test was done in radiology, so I actually was able to stay in the room with her. She did so good! She's tough like her sister. Basically what they did was insert a catheter and then put dye into the catheter and took x-rays. When Taylor had her surgery, one of the employees brought her stickers and crayons which really put her in a better moon. I'm not really sure what her "title" is, but I think she just tries to make the kids as comfortable as she possibly can when they have procedures done. The same lady came and brought one of those little musical boxes that you would put on the side of a baby's crib. She laid it right by Bella's head, and Bella stayed very calm and was smiling and kicking her legs. Well, the first nurse tried to get the catheter in twice and couldn't get it. I know that sometimes putting a catheter in can be difficult anyway and can only imagine how difficult it must be to put in a tiny infant. It's not a very big target. Still, I was anxious to get it over with. Another nurse tried the third time and got it, but by this point, Bella was really ready for it to be over with, too. The radiologist was the one who did the actual x-rays, so once it was over, I didn't have to wait to find out the result; she told me right away that everything looked normal. Yay!! After that, I had to take the radiologist's report over to the urologist's office to meet with him. He said that because the test was negative it was likely that her UTI was just due to her urinary tract being contaminated from her stool. He wants us to go back in five months so they can test her urine and make sure everything still looks good.
Then, yesterday, I had my follow up on the mastitis. I figured he would just take a quick look, so I took both girls with me. Surprisingly, Taylor was a perfect angel most of the time while we were waiting. I got her to sit down and look at a magazine for a few minutes. She saw a picture of several babies together, and she started saying, "There's Kena... There's Noah..." haha It was Bella that started to get fussy because she was getting hungry. The receptionist let us go back to the kitchen area so I could feed her where Taylor took much advantage of the bowl of miniature Reese's cups and the water dispenser. I was still feeding Bella when the nurse took me back to the room. When she walked out, she didn't tell me to take off my shirt and leave me a little paper gown or anything. I thought surely he would have to check the area. So, when he came in, he asked how everything was. I told him everything was all better and the redness was completely gone. He said, "Didn't I mark on you?" I said yeah but it's gone. Did he seriously think that it would still be there after a week, especially when he only marked on me with a regular pen? haha So, he said, "Well, can I take a look?" That was a little awkward. I'm thinking "how exactly do I go about doing this?" He held Bella for me, and then I basically just stood there and lifted my shirt. I felt like I should have gotten some Mardi Gras beads after that.. haha Taylor decided to be her difficult self at the end. It took us about 15 minutes to get out of the office after we were already done because she kept going back and playing with the water dispenser and filling her cup and spilling it on the floor, and I was trying to clean up her mess to keep someone else from falling and breaking their tailbone. Then, while I was trying to wipe up the water, she was opening up Reese's cups and throwing the wrapper on the floor, so I had to make her pick up every little piece (because you know they have to tear it into a million pieces in order to get the wrapper off!). I think the office staff was very entertained.
Gratefully, even though we had lots of doctors' visits, everything turned out well, and we are all healthy. We're hoping to be able to stick around the house as much as possible this week though.
Monday, June 29, 2009
How Does Your Garden Grow?
This is our first year ever to plant a garden. Jared has done all of the work really. I have just pulled a few weeds with the help of my sils and harvested some cucumbers when they were ready, but all of the sweat that goes into digging, planting, and maintaining the garden has been accomplished by Jared (and if you know Jared, you know how much sweat that is! haha.. love you, babe!) He planted cucumbers, squash, tomatoes, okra, sweet bell peppers, jalapeno peppers, and serrano peppers. At first, everything seemed to be dying between the crazy weather changes and the two solid weeks of rain that we had earlier in the spring. In fact, he planted several of the cucumber and squash over again because they weren't looking to good. We weren't too upset because we knew it was our first year, and it's a learning process.
Sunday, June 28, 2009
Two Months
My main headaches these days come from Taylor and her terrible two's. I don't know if it's just the age or if she's acting out more because of the new baby- or again, maybe it's a combination of the two- but she has been really horrible lately (only with me; she's pretty good with everyone else--- I don't want to scare away any potential babysitters.. haha). I pretty much have to tell her everything about five times, and then she still usually doesn't listen. It doesn't matter if I spank her, put her in the corner, whatever. She just doesn't listen, and it's driving me absolutely insane. I've had people ask me how it has been adjusting to two kids, but in all honesty (and hopefully it will stay this way), I've been able to adjust quite well to Bella. It's Taylor and her attitude that has been so hard.
Oh yeah, in one of my last posts, I said if I wasn't careful Taylor would be trying to pick her up and drag her around the house. Well, last Sunday, I took the girls to church by myself. As I was packing up our stuff to get ready to go, I had Bella sitting in her little chair on one side of the living room (almost in the kitchen). I had told Taylor that we were going to church. Well, as I was out of the room, I guess she decided that Bella needed to be in her car seat, so when I walked back in the room, Bella was sitting in the car seat-which was all the way on the other side of the living room, closer to the door. She never let out a scream, so I never even knew anything was going on until I walked back in the room and saw that she wasn't in the chair. Taylor must have done a pretty good job picking her up (Bella usually lets me know when big sister is picking on her), and it's not like I was even out of the room for that long either. Taylor has tried to pick her up several times since then, so I'm sure this will not be the last time that this happens.
Friday, June 19, 2009
Silly Girl
She's continuing to want to do more and more with the baby, and the last few days she's been saying, "Mom, I want to hold it."
Now I'm really going to have to watch her. Not only will she be poking her in the eye, but she'll be trying to pick her up by herself and drag her around the house if I'm not careful! She has been very "helpful" with trying to change the baby's diapers though. She will try to take the diaper off (whether we want her to or not) and wipe the baby's bottom, and she's always getting out the wipes (again, whether we want her to or not). If only she would just continue this when she gets older and actually can change diapers....
Tuesday, June 9, 2009
My Girls
Taylor loved watching this video of herself. When it would go off, she would say, "Where's Taylor?"
So, when we first brought Bella home, Taylor didn't want much to do with her. Then, she gradually started warming up to her. NOW... she won't leave her ALONE!! haha She is constantly in her face all the time, and honestly, it drives me crazy! I mean, I am very happy that she loves her sister, but I'm not so happy when Bella is happy and content and then Taylor starts messing with her and makes her mad. As they get older, if Taylor complains about her little sister being annoying, I'm gonna tell her that she's just getting what she deserves ;-)Bella has started smiling a little bit. She is now 6 weeks old, and I guess she started at 4 weeks. The first time I noticed was when I woke up to feed her during the middle of the night. I had fed her a little bit, changed her diaper, and was getting ready to feed her some more. She was staring at the lamp on my night stand. I turned her face towards me. She looked right at me and gave me the biggest smile. I am pretty sure that was not just gas ;-) She is still sleeping well at night- usually 3-5 hours in between feedings- but we are still having a hard time getting her to go to sleep. We try to put her to bed around the same time as Taylor, but most nights, she won't go to sleep and stay asleep until around midnight which means Jared and I aren't going to bed until midnight. She will either fall asleep for just a few minutes and then wake right back up, or she'll fall asleep and then wake up as soon as we put her in her bed, or she'll just lay there keeping her eyes just barely open the whole time. We finally end up just having to stick her in her swing and let her cry and get mad to wear herself out a little bit before we can get her to fall asleep for the night.
Taylor continues to bring me great joy and great frustration every day..haha She is constantly saying and doing new things. She is starting to repeat just about everything we say. She especially likes to mimick Jared and do things that he does. We've started getting her to pray. Several months ago, she used to say "Heavenly Father, thank you for this day..." but stopped, and we haven't been able to get her to pray until now. When you try to get a kid to pray, most little kids just repeat the last word of the sentence. Taylor will actually try to say the whole sentence. Of course, it kind of ends up being mumbled and THEN repeating the last word, but hey, she's trying. It's very cute.
She has several new words and phrases that she says a lot. She picked up "oh goodness" from me saying it to the baby. She will say "oh my gosh," which is freaking adorable. One night after a long day, Jared laid down in the living room floor, put his hands behind his head, and said, "oh my gosh," and Taylor repeated everything he said and did. It was hilarious. Taylor will get me to help her put her socks on, and one day we were trying to put some on, and I told her they were too little. Now, if she can't get something on by herself, it's "too widdle." I also told her that her daddy was silly, so she'll say that.
Probably one of the cutest things she says is "yucky." I really wish I could get that on video. I wish I could get all of this on video, but she gets really camera shy. She cracks me up because she can be a tomboy and get down and dirty and then turn around and be such a girly-girl. Last weekend when Jared was working on the fence, she kept coming in the house every few minutes to change her socks, shoes, pants, whatever because they were yucky. I kept trying to tell her that she was just going to go back outside and get yucky again, so it was okay, but she refused to listen. Then, the next thing I know, I go outside and she is holding a worm! She also loves to chase bugs around. She will say "ay ya, ay ya, ay ya" or growl at them, and then she'll try to hit them. We've been getting a lot of flies in our house with her going in and out all the time. She will chase the flies around and say "shoo, bug." She can point out a fly anywhere in our house; she has a very good eye.
She has become VERY indepedent and is wanting to do things by herself more and more each day. For example, she can't really open a thing of string cheese by herself, but she makes it very clear that she wants to do it herself, and she will try her hardest before asking us for help. We just have to sit back and let her give it a try and then step in when she really needs us. Her favorite shows are Diego, Dora, Wow Wow Wubbzy, Sponge Bob, and My Friends Tigger and Poo, and she is very picky about what she wants to watch at what time. Jared used to work with our next door neighbor, Cheryl, and Taylor LOVES her. She calls her "Sherry." If Cheryl is outside when Taylor is playing, she will always run over to her house to play with her and her kitty and puppy.
Jared and I have decided that we're going to have to start making a list of all the new things Taylor does WHEN she does them because we always end up forgetting by the time I get a chance to blog them. They are just growing and learning so much so fast at this age. It's hard to keep up with them!
I have such beautiful girls, and I am very grateful to be a mother! I hope that they will be very close growing up and will always appreciate how lucky they are to have a sister!
Sunday, June 7, 2009
It's Almost Done
Jared has been working on the fence for the last few weeks, just a day here or there when he had time and when it wasn't raining (which wasn't often). His brothers and a friend of ours have also come to help him. They finally got all of the posts up last weekend, and this week, Home Depot called and said the fence panels were in. So, yesterday, Jared started working at about 8:00am and worked all day long. Our friend, Dave (who Taylor has a huge crush on), came to help a little bit later, and the fence is pretty much complete now. All Jared has to do is put up a couple of gates, and we're all set! I am so excited, and it really looks great! They did an awesome job! I think our yard looks even better now, too. I think the fence gives it a nice clean look, and our next door neighbor just came by and said our yard looks even bigger now.
*Taylor working hard to help her daddy.*
They worked until about 5 or 5:30pm, so Jared was pretty sore afterwards, and he definitely looks like a black man now... haha Well, I guess I should say a black farmer because it's really just his face, neck, and arms that are really tan. Taylor is getting quite the tan herself. She definitely has her daddy's skin tone.
work in progress
On the left side of the picture, you can see our garden that Jared planted. We didn't think it was going to survive at first, but it's looking good now and is starting to produce some tomatoes and peppers so far.
It sure is nice having a husband who is quite a handyman and can do stuff like this himself and save us money by not having to hire a professional! and we're grateful for everyone who has helped us in the process!
Saturday, June 6, 2009
An Interesting Weekend
Wednesday, June 3, 2009
Twilight
Oops! ‘Twilight’ Star Kristen Stewart Has An Awkward Moment At The 2009 MTV Movie Awards
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She is so awkward and awesome! haha She is definitely perfect to play Bella. I have watched this over and over again because it cracks me up!
*Some people haven't been able to pull up the videos from the links I provided. So, I played the awards show off my DVR, recorded it onto my camera, and then uploaded it here. We'll see if you have any better luck this time!*
Also, they showed a trailer for New Moon. I'm counting down the days for another Girls' Night Out!! www.youtube.com/watch?v=KYHA3qKD8rw&feature=related





