As most of you know, Jared works at Merrill Lynch which was bought out by Bank of America at the beginning of the new year. Since then, they have had to start laying off employees all around the country, and we've been a little nervous about the security of Jared's job. A few weeks ago, one of the financial advisors that Jared works for talked to him and let him know that his job is secure for the time being which was very reassuring. He called him into his office again the other day to let him know that he had spoken with the other financial advisors and said IF they ended up having to let one of their client associates go, it would not be one of the ones who work for him, including Jared (basically only leaving one person...). Again, that made us feel better.
However, he told Jared to do everything and learn everything he possibly can in order to make himself more of an asset, and he asked Jared to go on another trip to New Jersey (he went there back in October) for training. So, Jared comes home yesterday and informs me that his boss wants him to go on this trip which just happens to be April 22-24--- TWO weeks before my due date!!! Taylor was two weeks early. Granted, I was induced with her, but I was already 4-5 cm dilated and like 80% effaced and contracting pretty regularly, so I really could have gone into labor on my own at any time. Needless to say, I am very, VERY nervous about this... and really not so happy at all!
He really can't say no. This is something that he needs to do for his job, and it will be better for us in the long run. I am just really praying that I will hold out until he gets back and not go into labor while he is gone. If everything goes the way I have it planned out in my head (and I haven't informed my doctor of my plans yet.. haha), I will be induced on April 28th, which just happens to be the day that Jared and I "officially" first started dating. Then, he'll also be back in plenty of time to be there when the baby is born.
So... please keep us in your prayers that I will NOT go into labor while Jared is out of town!! :-)
Life as a "Mormon"
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