I stopped breastfeeding about three weeks before her first birthday, and now she is very attached to her bottle. I think we're going to have a hard time getting her to stop taking the bottle. It just makes her so happy!
Friday, July 2, 2010
Bella's 1st Birthday!!
I stopped breastfeeding about three weeks before her first birthday, and now she is very attached to her bottle. I think we're going to have a hard time getting her to stop taking the bottle. It just makes her so happy!
Wednesday, March 10, 2010
January & February
Then I started to have cold & sinus symptoms which led to a sore throat. The sore throat wasn't so bad, but I started to notice white spots on the back of my throat. I figured I better go to the doctor to make sure that it wasn't strep since Taylor is constantly eating or drinking after me. My doctor wasn't in the office, so I saw one of his partners who said that I qualified for antibiotics anyway since I had had the sinus symptoms for a week, and IF it was strep, the antibiotics would cover it. By the next day, my sore throat was better, but I started getting body aches, hot flashes, chills, fatigue, and a little shortness of breath. I would try to rest a little and would start to feel better, but as soon as I got up moving around and doing stuff, I would start feeling horrible again. By the weekend, most of the symptoms were gone except the shortness of breath started to get worse. At times, it would get so bad that I would feel very anxious. I've never experienced anything like this before in my life. It felt as if I had asthma and needed an inhaler. Bella had her 9 month check up the following Monday, so I scheduled an appointment for myself as well. My doctor said my lungs sounded great, my white count looked fine, I was negative for mono, everything looked fine as far as the physical exam went. He said he thought it was probably just something viral from the very beginning and to give it another week. If I wasn't better in a week, come back in and he would test for more rare things. That day, I went home and felt incredibly short of breath and was brought to tears just thinking about having to endure this for another week, but it gradually got better, and sure enough, after another week I was feeling much better. So, yeah, the month of January was pretty much a waste for us... haha. I think we missed 3 out of 4 weeks at church.
February was incredibly busy because we were getting our house ready to put back on the market. We (well, in all fairness, I should say Jared because he did most of the work) spent a lot of time packing things up to remove clutter, cleaning, etc. Then, about halfway through the month, we decided that we would just move in with my mom while our house is for sale to try to avoid the stress of having to keep the house clean all the time when you have little kids at home.
So, our house is officially for sale now. Hopefully the second time is the charm! I hate being in limbo. I just want to get this house sold so that we can start looking for a new house. I've had some sentimental moments thinking about moving. I don't think I'll miss the house itself- it's just the memories, it was our first house together, it's where we brought both girls home from the hospital, etc.
So far, things are going well at my mom's house. I've been worried about Taylor becoming extremely spoiled because Grandma lets her do whatever she wants, which is great occasionally but not on an every day basis.. haha.. but in all honesty, I'm going to be extremely spoiled as well. My mom does so much. She always does the dishes and cleans the house- even when I tell her not to and to let me clean my own mess ;-) Plus, I always have someone here to help with the girls (she only works a few hours a day), and it definitely helps my stress level with the girls. I am very grateful for all that she does!
We had been at my mom's house for less than 24 hours when we had our first accident. My old bedroom is directly bedside the stairs. I was upstairs in my room putting things away in the closet, and Bella was in the room with me. My mom and Taylor came in the room to tell me something, and when they left, Bella went crawling after them. By the time I realized it, it was too late, and she had already fallen halfway down the stairs. I just screamed and ran after her, and then my mom came running. She fell down about 10 wooden stairs, and when she stopped, I picked her up and just started bawling. She had a knot and a bruise on her forehead and was crying, but she stopped crying after only a few minutes and was back to her normal self. Her pupils looked fine; she was moving everything well and was crawling around and being playful. I was so torn up because I don't like to mess with head injuries... you just never know. I felt like she was fine, but I would have hated not taking her to the ER (this was on a Saturday, so we couldn't just take her to our doctor's office) and then something happen to her. So, I called our doctor's office and spoke to the on-call doctor. I just needed the doctor to give me permission to monitor her at home. He asked if she cried when I pushed on the bruise/knot on her head, NO. Does it hurt when you push on her spine? (oh yeah, C-spine precautions-- the whole nurse thing went straight out the door and I went straight into mommy mode) No pain on the spine. He said that we were probably fine to just watch her and wake her every 2 hours for the next 24 hours and just go straight to the ER if her behavior or anything started to change. Anyway, things turned out just fine, but we are definitely more careful and trying to adjust to having stairs. I don't want to experience anything like that again.
So, if you know anyone who is looking for a house in our area, let us know ;-) and please pray that we'll be able to sell it quickly!
Bella Monster


She has earned the nickname "Bella Monster." Jared initially gave her the nickname because she loves to growl; if you growl at her, she will growl back at you, and once she really started crawling good, she would crawl after everyone. Jared would be playing with Taylor and wrestling on the floor or something, and Bella would want to get in on the action, so she would crawl towards them with a big grin on her face, and Jared would say, "Oh no! Here comes the Bella Monster!" At that point, Bella was the happiest, most playful baby. Now, the nickname is starting to take a different turn. She is starting to add quite a bit of sass into her personality. Again, she is very vocal, and if she doesn't like something, she will let you know, and she's even starting little mini-temper tantrums where she'll throw her head back, scream, and kick her legs. I don't like it one bit! I told her that she HAS to stay my sweet baby!
I didn't post after Bella's 9 month check up, and now I've forgotten exactly what her height and weight was. I believe she was 18-almost 19- lbs which is how much Taylor was at 12-15 mos. I think Bella is taller than Taylor was, too. She didn't have to get shots, but they had to prick her finger to check her blood count. She didn't cry one bit when they pricked her finger, but she didn't like it when they had to hold her hand and squeeze her finger to get the blood out, and then she couldn't stand the band-aid on her finger afterwards.
As far as eating goes, she has become more independent and wants to be able to put things into her own mouth which can be quite difficult when you don't have enough teeth to be able to chew. I still give her baby food but give her tiny pieces of banana, strawberries, green beans, hot dog, apple, cheerios... pretty much anything soft enough that she can gum on and hopefully won't choke.

She loves the big bath tub and loves to splash around. If she's awake and I try to get a shower without her, she will scream and cry until I let her in.
Friday, February 19, 2010
3 Years Old!
As she ate, I finished decorating her birthday cake.
Taylor loves her cousins, but other than them, her best friend is Megan. They are about six months apart, and they get along so well. It helps that Megan is very laid back, so their personalities don't clash ;-)
We took a break from playing games to enjoy some pizza. Taylor was informing Jared that this piece of pizza was too hot.

When Bella woke up during the night, I thought I kept hearing something, and after I got done feeding her, I went and stood at Taylor's door. I heard some very faint crying, so I opened the door, and it was Megan crying. I sat down next to her and asked what was wrong. She said, "I just want to go home." I asked her what was the matter, and she said, "I'm just having horrible trouble sleeping." (I think this was Megan's first sleepover with a friend.) I asked if she would like to sleep in Taylor's bed because Taylor ended up falling asleep on the floor next to her. She didn't realize Taylor was on the floor and said, "I don't want to wake Taylor up." She's such a sweet girl! I told her it was okay because Taylor was asleep on the floor, so she got up in the bed, and then I turned on the closet light so it wouldn't be quite so dark in the room. I told her if she needed us she could come to our room and get us.
Jared got up when the girls woke up in the morning and let me sleep a little longer. When I woke up, this is how I was greeted.
I think Megan was feeling much better and ended up enjoying the sleepover after all. Her mom tells me that she keeps asking when they're going to do it again!
Here's Taylor playing with the dollhouse from Grandma while wearing her Snow White outfit.
She has become quite obsessed with taking pictures of her tongue. She loves to get my camera and take pictures, and I'll find a million up close pictures of every toy she has and pictures of herself sticking out her tongue.
The 2nd week of December was visitor's week at dance. I was so excited because we don't get to watch her at dance. There's not a window to look through or anything.
Our friends Savanna & Dave; Savanna was my roommate in Tuscaloosa for a short time before I graduated and got married; Taylor had a huge crush on Dave. They ended up moving back to Arizona back in the fall, so we were all very sad!
Taylor wearing her nightgown with her hat, shoes, and purse- so fashionable! Love this hat from her Aunt Mimi!
Taylor with some of her favorite stuffed animals and dolls
Friday, December 4, 2009
Update
Wednesday, December 2, 2009
In the dumps
Well, here we are, a little over two weeks away from Taylor's 3rd birthday, and she's still not potty-trained. About a month ago, she finally reached a point where she didn't care if she went to the potty or not. We were using Pull-Ups, and then I heard people say not to use those because they are nothing but a diaper that you can pull up and down, which is true. If Taylor wanted to pee in the potty, she would; if she didn't, she would just pee in her pull-up, and it wasn't a big deal. So, we put her back in regular diapers for a week or two to give her a break, and then we started back the potty-training- trying to be more consistent this time- having her wear panties instead.
As far as peeing in the potty goes, she has done pretty well except for the fact that we pretty much always have to remind her to go pee. She doesn't usually initiate it on her own. Our biggest problem is that she has yet to poop on the potty- not even once. She just refuses to do it. We've tried bribing her. We've tried yelling at her. We've tried telling her that big girls go on the potty. We've tried catching her right before we KNOW that she's going to poop and putting her on the potty. Let me just say that changing a poopy diaper is gross, but having to clean poop out of her panties is absolutely disgusting!
So, I think we're going back to pull-ups... at least when we're out in public in case she has an accident. I wasn't too excited when she pooped in her panties while I was out to eat with a friend at Dreamland last weekend. She crawled under the table-- I thought she was trying to get some french fries that she dropped- but when she wouldn't come back up, I knew what was wrong.
Taylor is just a very independent little girl, and I know that she will get it done when she is ready..... I just wish she would hurry up and decide she's ready! It's so frustrating for me, and I'm tired of being down in the dumps!!
Thursday, November 12, 2009
6 months
She got her shots. She didn't cry when they stuck the needles in, just when they injected the medicine. Then, Taylor had to get a flu shot. I had warned her that she was going to have to get some medicine and it would hurt. She told me she didn't want to get hurt. We started to hold her down, but the nurse forgot to get a band aid, so we let Taylor up while she went to get one, and of course, then Taylor had more time to think about what was about to happen, so she was freaking out. She was bawling after they gave her the shot until I said, "Do you want to go get a sucker?" and then she immediately turned the tears off and was happy again... haha I've been lucky that both of my girls have done really well with their shots and have only had mild fussiness afterwards.

I love watching Taylor and Bella interact. I get glimpses of what it will be like between them in the future. I hope that they will always be close. Bella is so happy and will smile for pretty much anyone, but Taylor can get her to laugh like no one else. Of course, she usually stops by the time I get my camera ;-)
Here she is squealing more than laughing. I've caught a few laughs on camera, but always seem to miss the moments when Taylor gets her laughing over and over again.
She's also babbling a lot.
I've got some catching up to do, so more pictures and videos to come!







